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Washing Hands

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Washing Hands

1
Turn on the tap

Turn on the tap

2
Wet your hands

Wet your hands

3
Put soap on your hands

Put soap on your hands

4
Rub your palms together

Rub your palms together

5
Rub between your fingers

Rub between your fingers

6
Rub the backs of your hands

Rub the backs of your hands

7
Rinse your hands well

Rinse your hands well

8
Turn off the tap

Turn off the tap

9
Dry your hands with a towel

Dry your hands with a towel

Parent guide

Before you start

Some children rush hand-washing in a second or skip the soap. A pump soap bottle is easier to manage than a slippery bar. Set the tap to a soft flow first — a strong stream or very cold water can feel too much. Keep a familiar towel within easy reach.

How to teach

Try backward chaining: you do all the steps, but let your child do the very last step themselves. Next time, let them do the last two — working backwards. This way your child always finishes with success, and success is what makes them want to try again.

Celebrate each tick

Don't wait for the whole routine to be perfect. Every single step your child does is worth a smile, a clap, a high-five. Small wins, celebrated out loud, add up faster than you think.

Everywhere, not just here

Use simple, generic pictures so the skill travels. Practice at nani's or dadi's house too, not only at home. A skill your child can only do in one bathroom isn't finished yet — the goal is that it works everywhere.

Make the rubbing last

The soap steps only work if the rubbing lasts long enough. Sing one short line together — a favourite tune — so palms, fingers and the backs of the hands all get a turn. The gaps between fingers are the most-missed spot.

Questions parents ask

My child rushes and doesn’t rub long enough — what helps?

Sing one short line together while rubbing — a favourite tune sets the right length without counting. The step sheet breaks rubbing into palms, fingers and backs of hands so no spot gets missed.

When is the most important time to teach handwashing?

Tie it to natural daily moments — before meals, after the toilet, after coming home. Linking handwashing to an existing routine makes it stick far faster than practising it on its own.

Bar soap keeps slipping and frustrates my child — any tips?

A pump bottle of liquid soap is much easier to control than a slippery bar, and gives a consistent amount every time. Small changes to the setup often solve the struggle better than more practice.

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