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Crossing the Road

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Crossing the Road

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Stop at the edge of the road

Stop at the edge of the road

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Look both ways

Look both ways

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Wait if vehicles are coming

Wait if vehicles are coming

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Hold an adult's hand

Hold an adult's hand

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Cross when the road is clear

Cross when the road is clear

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Walk on the zebra crossing

Walk on the zebra crossing

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Keep looking as you walk

Keep looking as you walk

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Reach the other side safely

Reach the other side safely

Parent guide

Before you start

Start on a quiet residential street or a park path with no traffic. Most Indian roads have no pedestrian signal, so the main skill is judging a safe gap in traffic — practice that first. Begin by holding your child's hand and narrating every step out loud.

How to teach

Try backward chaining: you do all the steps, but let your child do the very last step themselves. Next time, let them do the last two — working backwards. This way your child always finishes with success, and success is what makes them want to try again.

Celebrate each tick

Don't wait for the whole routine to be perfect. Every single step your child does is worth a smile, a clap, a high-five. Small wins, celebrated out loud, add up faster than you think.

Everywhere, not just here

Use simple, generic pictures so the skill travels. Practice at nani's or dadi's house too, not only at home. A skill your child can only do in one bathroom isn't finished yet — the goal is that it works everywhere.

When there is a signal

Only some big junctions have a pedestrian signal. Where there is one: red means stop and wait, green means look then walk, yellow means get ready to stop. Even on green, still look — vehicles here often jump the signal or turn across the crossing.

Watch for two-wheelers

In India many roads have bikes, autos and cycles. They may turn suddenly or use the wrong side. Remind your child to keep looking, even when they are halfway across.

Questions parents ask

Indian roads are so busy — how do I teach crossing safely?

Always hold an adult’s hand and make crossing a fixed ritual — stop, look both ways, wait, then cross together. Same words, same order, every time; predictability is what keeps your child safe.

At what age can an autistic child cross a road alone?

There is no fixed age — it depends on the child, the road, and lots of supervised practice. Keep holding hands and practising together until you are fully confident; there is no rush and no wrong pace.

My child rushes into the road — how do I stop that?

Practise a firm “stop” at the edge of the kerb every single time, even when the road is empty. Teaching the pause as a fixed step turns “stop and wait” into an automatic habit.

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